There just seems to be siblings who are high maintenance and then there's us who put on a brave face but need a cuddle now and then. I pray karma occurs when one needs to step up and support the parent when they need it later on. Don't come running to me mate. I thank God for my husband and try to be in a good temper around him as I know acting up affects him too. I do have a secret, if things get really beyond me I put on the dvd movie Punisher and imagine he is playing out my revenge too. Seems to work lol.