@Cate64 I hear you .... I have learnt to let it go and let my emotions be calm as they will never get it..... the ones who are always the users will always do that .....
I have a great Cd by Petrea King and I found it helpful in letting it go.....
PETREA KING relaxation ..... it has a beautiful guided track called progressive relaxation..... All my user Brothers go into the basket .... and float away leaving me calm.... you will understand if you get the CD
I found that through treatment my fuse was so short I would have road rage (as myself passenger) driving in a rural town.that's bad our traffic hold ups are maybe 5 to 10 cars at the most..... But I have mellowed back towards who I was before this roller coaster ride..... I just dont tolerate any BullSh*t anymore in life....
Our emotional cup is full with this roller coaster called BC and we need to find proactive ways of letting what stressors we can go, for me I found doing relaxation meditation each night helped.
HUGS and Energy