Thanks for responding Deanne.
With my Mum...it will never be too hard.
When the time comes, it will never be the right one.
For their own personal reasons, my sisters are not in a position to help.
My eldest daughter though is a God send.
Perhaps my legacy in her is that she is too much like me.
When I go over to the west this month to visit my husband, she and her two babies (2 1/2 and 6 months) will come and stay with my Mum so that she has company and can stay in her own home.
I count my blessings........every day......and top of the lists are my husband, my mother, my children..........and that he watches over me and gives me strength every day........