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NaturalBel
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12 years ago

A funeral

Wish to let you all know that I care very much for how youre all going, and get on here to give as much support as possible.

My husbands best friend has just died suddenly, and we are dealing with that loss.  The friend was only 42, exercised and was very fit and this is a big shock.

We moved to Launceston with the bonus of spending time with Phil.  He well known here, and is in The Examiner today.

We only get one best friend, and how sad it is to lose him.  

As we all know, there is no rhyme or reason, its just "sh... happens".  

Love Bel

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  • NaturalBel's avatar
    NaturalBel
    Member
    12 years ago

    So far, we are both coping.  Its amazing how life throws these tests our way isnt it.  Test of courage, strength and ability to repair and move passed the loss.  Its definately a one day at a time event.  My heart breaks for my darling husband, he had one friend, and that one left us.  I have asked him to cast his net further in future, and open himself to new friendships, and more happiness in the years ahead.  He understands where I am coming from.  Thank you again, I appreciate all the support , very much. X Bel

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    MandaMoo
    Member
    12 years ago
    I am so sorry for your loss. There are no rules to grieving. A x
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    MandaMoo
    Member
    12 years ago
    I am so sorry for your loss. There are no rules to grieving. A x
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    TonyaM
    Member
    12 years ago

    Oh Bel,how sad for you and your husband.I am so sorry for you both.A death seems so much worse when it's a young person and unexpected.What a tough year you have had.Thinking of you and sending hugs.    Tonya xx

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    TonyaM
    Member
    12 years ago

    Oh Bel,how sad for you and your husband.I am so sorry for you both.A death seems so much worse when it's a young person and unexpected.What a tough year you have had.Thinking of you and sending hugs.    Tonya xx

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    adean
    Member
    12 years ago
    So sorry to hear about your friend , it makes you think how precious life is . Enjoy your memories of your husband and your friend. Big hug adean
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    adean
    Member
    12 years ago
    So sorry to hear about your friend , it makes you think how precious life is . Enjoy your memories of your husband and your friend. Big hug adean
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    mgndam1603
    Member
    12 years ago

    my deepest sympathy for the lose of your friend, dealing with the lose of a loved one is just heart wrenching.

    We are all here should you need any extra support, for a while there I wasn't hopping on so much as I just couldn't face it all, but thankfully thats behind me and I am back to my old self again.

    Sending love and white light.

    Donna

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    mgndam1603
    Member
    12 years ago

    my deepest sympathy for the lose of your friend, dealing with the lose of a loved one is just heart wrenching.

    We are all here should you need any extra support, for a while there I wasn't hopping on so much as I just couldn't face it all, but thankfully thats behind me and I am back to my old self again.

    Sending love and white light.

    Donna