whinging when theres no need to whinge

So glad you shared. Yes so get the frustration. I recently wanted wine to put in my spag bowl sauce and to have a glass of course. So there I am thinking it is the usual these days to have a twist top. ...but nooooo...its a cork....first it's then searching the draw for a decent cork screw. Then it's getting the darn plastically foil cover off the cork...which I almost took my finger off with as needed a knife for it as no finger strength now...then not enough strength to easily use that cork screw following my bilateral mastectomy and reconstruction. ...I almost smashed off the beck and just guzzled out the bottle. But I didn't. ..big breath...kept trying and calmly got that glass of wine...oh yes had two that night after all that! Life sucks abd no going back and some days it just gives you the shits.  

Oooh...totally get the hair...I have silver curls....used to have a light brown bob. I have no idea how to care for these curls with their own darn mind and spend more on products to calm the curl down than I ever did on my hair in the past. How the hell will I grow it longer?  It is going straight up and without product it looks like a steel pot scrubber. ..sigh. But at least it's growing. So zip it and no whinging. So get it.