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Mags44
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5 years ago

Uncertainty

Hello everyone,

I have just joined this incredible network as I only just learnt it existed. I was diagnosed end of Oct 2019 with invasive ductal carcinoma, estrogen and progesterone receptor positive, grade 3. I had my strategy informed by my surgeon sorted, that I would complete the 5 month chemo and then have the breast conservation surgery followed by radiation treatment. I was fine and mentally strong progressing through the chemo treatment because I just needed to focus on the here and now and then after all this life would return to normal.

Now I have finished the chemo treatment and my surgery is planned for next week and all of a sudden I am second guessing my surgery options. This is in addition to the news that I had recently received that my father has been diagnosed with terminal cancer.

All of a sudden I feel nervous and thinking about reoccurrence, what’s in my control, is there a way I can minimise future risk, should I be having a mastectomy instead? I have spoken to my doctors and they say that my strategy is good for partial mastectomy /lumpectomy but ultimately it is my decision.  I have a young family and alongside the covid 19 issue happening, could I revisit the full mastectomy later...

Has anyone else also experienced this choice, nervousness before surgery and how did you decide? 

Very grateful for your time and advice.