@Lelle the fact it was grade 3 is def smth to consider. The fact it was growing so quickly is very important. Just make sure you know exactly what the chemo will do in relation to the grade. As I said, I thought me having chemo was recommended mostly due to it being multifocal and bilateral. That scared me the most. But after it was confirmed that it would def not help in that regard, I didn’t see the point. And I did think long and hard about it for a couple weeks. Ask your oncologist to tell you how chemo will prevent future lesions growing at the same rate, and also how it will help with mopping up any current stray rogue cells. It’s about weighing up pros and cons as we all know. If the answer is that chemo will be more beneficial than not, def go for it.
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