I too had a grey area decision to make. I did a lot of thinking about it while I went on long walks. A lot of long walks! No one was especially helpful to talk to, though my BS was very patient with me debating the pros and cons.
In the end what tipped me was my best friend asking me very specifically why I was making the decision I'd tentatively chosen. She asked on WhatsApp so I had to answer by writing back. There was something about listing the reasons (there ended up being 11!) that cemented my decision.
Ultimately it comes down to what you are comfortable living with, no matter what happens in the future. The aim is to have no regrets! All the very best, K xox