Time

Hi Maureen thank you for your kind thoughts, you are right time does help. You are very lucky you have your mum still with you, 92 is amazing, I work with older people and they have a different way at looking at life as they have seeen so much.

I will always have the memories and none of us know when it is our time, so we do need to enjoy every day and I do try, just sometimes it gathers in to a big pile of crap. Hope you are well take care

Hi Rowdy. I too am very sorry to hear this very sad news.  You just need to allow yourself to grieve and not expect the pain to go away.  I lost my Dad 26 years ago and I still miss him.  The old saying that time will heal is true in that you do learn to live and enjoy living again because you have your wonderful memories of your Dad.  I have my lovely Mum living with me now and she will be 92 in a few months. We talk about Dad like he is just out of the house sometimes and have lots of laughs because he was a very funny guy.  We still toast his birthday and remember him with the family at other important occasions.  These memories will always be with me. 

Take care. Maureen

Oh dear Rowdy

I can feel it.  It's been knocked down again from the mood.  

It's sad and sorry you lost your Dad.  I lost my Dad more than 10 years.  But every time when I think of him, it brings me tears.  However, I do dream of him, have you?  I dream of him, he is way more happier than before.  He sent me a lot of smile.  He is light and enjoy.

We've came through a lot.  We shouldn't sit there and enjoy sadness.  Your Dad and my Dad don't like seeing us in this way.

I usually gave myself a deep breathe and continue to live.  I felt life sometimes was so heavy.  This battle let me rethink about life and the way that I processed it.  I put myself into a buffet table, just pick those that I like, avoid and even not touching for those could cause me sick.  I always remember this theory to my daily living.

Rowdy, you came through a big chapter in your life already, please keep on and write something good and enjoyable stuff to the following chapters.  By the time I wrote to you, I am encouraging myself as well.

Take care.

Rosanna

Good mornng ladies thank you for youe kind words. Today is another day and I will try and move on 

Hi Rowdy, I'm so very sorry to hear about your Dad. Let's take the cancer out of the equation for a moment. You're grieving and in shock at the passing of your Dad. Is it any wonder you are feeling so low and are now unwell. This is a huge shock to your system. Be kind to yourself. 

As far as having had more than your fair share, well unfortunately that's how life seems to go. I'm sure you will know others who seem to get more than their share of hurt and trauma. I don't understand why this is,  it's not fair but you will get through this. Sometimes it's hard not to feel as though you are being kicked whilst you are down by the universe.  There's no doubt that this is going to be a difficult time for you and as I say, you need to be kind to yourself. Allow yourself to feel the emotions and let them out, even if it is just by writing blogs here.  

Take care. Karen xox

Hello Rowdy,

I am very sorry to hear about your father's passing. You are within your right to be feeling negative as it hasn't been easy.

Do take care and hope that things in general will get better .

love Finita xxxxxxxxxxxxx