Woo hoo another step closer to cancer free boobs! Understand your reaction I was told at 2.30 on a Wednesday they wanted to operate the next morning. I argued nicely and it happened on Monday.
Don't put undue pressure on yourself with pre op party and catch ups. I had a girlfriend that meant well and drove me nutty with the relentless questions and stress like how do you know you've got the best surgeon. In the end I asked her did she want me to go to the yellow pages?
Take time to take stock at home mentally and physically. Calming yourself and hubby is the priority.
Take care sending you a virtual hug Christine xx