I was diagnosed with grade 3 BC two weeks ago. I am due to be operated on the 19th Nov. I am having bilateral surgery. I live on the Gold Coast and I am very scared and anxious. Is there anyone out there that would like to talk to me. I am staying strong and positive for my family, but feel like falling apart. I am 68 years old and have 4 children and 2 grandchildren. I have had breast screens every two years for the past 15 years, my last one 18mnths ago was clear? I will go to Robina Hospital and my Dr is Doctor Gault. Has anyone else had him?

I am also on the Gold Coast, and had bilateral surgery last year at Pindara. Waiting is the worst part of this journey, so just get through the next 4 days keeping as busy as you can. The surgery is surprisingly pain free, and after the first 24-48 hours I found panadol was enough, but you will probably start on Endone when you wake up. Don't forget front-opening pjs so the nurses can access your dressings easily (I only had a strip of tape - amazing!) A small pillow tucked under each arm will also help with comfort and sleeping on your back, as you won't try to roll over. Two of the girls on this site have your surgeon also - TinaW, and Casjsa - so you could message them for information. All the very best with your surgery. Sending you a big hug. Michelle xxx

Thank you so much Michelle. It's nice to communicate with you as you have been through it. Can you buy special pillows somewhere? Did you have chemo? Not sure I want reconstruction, dont want another op. How long were you in hospital? I know everyone is different. This was not exactly in my life plan. Instead of thinking "why me" I am thinking "why not me". I have had 68 years totally illness free. Have never been on medication. How lucky am I? I am telling myself that this will be a walk in the park. (actually to be more accurate "a walk along the beach") Hugs Michelle and thank you so much

You don't need special pillows - I just asked the nurse for 2 - in fact I think she suggested it. Just not too bulky - regular pillows are fine. Yes, I had chemo for 12 weeks. Be sure to take all the medications for before-&-after that they give you (making a chart and ticking them off helps), because it is easier to prevent side effects than it is to cure them. I was lucky and coped very well. I did find that green tea with slices of fresh ginger in it really helped - ginger is a natural anti-inflammatory and also good for nausea - and it was the best tip I had from anyone during chemo. I also had a portacath inserted for easy access. Like you, I was always very fit and healthy - walks on the beach, cardio classes, yoga - and my cancer was also found between mammograms/ultrasounds every 2 years. Sometimes they call them "interval cancers". Mine was Triple Negative, so chemo/radiation were the treatments as drugs don't work for tnbc, followed by a hysterectomy. I was in hospital less than 4 days - surgery Monday evening, home Friday morning. (With 1 drain in, which was removed the next afternoon.) I did not have reconstruction - I just wanted to heal asap. I am deciding now if I want it or not. There is light at the end of the tunnel. 18 months later I feel fit and healthy again. Just take things one day at a time and let the roller coaster take its course. Once you start, it all flows very quickly. Get a big file ready, and keep all your appointments/treatments/financial records from Day 1, as they will follow thick and fast. If I can help at all just message me. Big hug. Michelle xx

Thank you so much Michelle, This has helped me a lot. Its nice to talk to you about it. I am keeping myself busy to try and take my mind off it all. The only time I have been in hospital is when I had our kids 35 years ago, so it is quite daunting. I guess like everyone else going through the same thing, it is the mere thought of having my boobs removed seems overwhelming. Mind you, they are very tiny and one probably wouldn't notice them gone, its not like it's a leg or an arm. haha. My sense of humour is really kicking in. When I asked the surgeon if this means I don't have to have a mammagram again for the rest of my life, he was quietly amused. A girl has to do what a girl has to do. Thanks so much for your kindness Michelle. It has helped me heaps. Hugs to you. xxxx

I'm so sorry you have had to join us on this journey but welcome to this wonderful network. Michelle is a lovely lady, I think she was to first to respond to me all those months ago when I was new. She was so calming and caring. But you'll find all our Pink Sisters are here to hold your hand and support you through all the speed humps along the way. I was diagnosed just days before last Christmas (through a routine mammogram, I had no symptoms at all beforehand) with two lumps of two different cancer types in the same breast, one was triple negative and the other ER & HER2 positive. My beautiful family have been so loving and supportive but I still felt quite alone and so frightened. I was aware of this site from diagnosis but it took me a while to actually get up the nerve to post anything. I'm so glad I did because it's literally saved my sanity. I felt enveloped in understanding and empathy. I've have been through lumpectomy, 4 months of chemo, bilateral mastectomy and immediate reconstruction. I've now commenced taking a daily hormonal inhibitor tablet for 5 years and am still having three weekly Herceptin infusions until next May. I have had my ups and downs but I'm recovering and looking forward to next Christmas being almost back to normal all-be-it a new normal. It's amazing how quickly this year has gone. Know you are not alone and we are with you every step of the way. Sending you warm hugs and wishing you good luck for your surgery. Keep us posted how you get on. Love Janey xxx

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nolawunderle
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12 years ago
Hello everyone.

Thanks for the support girls. It has now been a week since my bilateral mastectomy. I am feeling excellent. I really have had no pain at all. Funny how that is the one thing I was so afraid of, the pain, and I have had none. It is a bit uncomfortable to sleep because I can't sleep on my back. I sleep curled up in the foetal position. I managed to find a way, by using my boomerang pillow tucked under one arm and my other arm over the top. This elevates the chest area slightly allowing for a comfortable sleep. I feel a bit of discomfort in the chest area, I think due to the see through tape which feels tight. I will get that off tomorrow as well as my results for the next step on this unexpected journey. I am not having reconstruction. I really don't mind my flat chest at all. I seem to have a lot of bruising?? I suppose this is normal. There are quite a lot of patches of bruising down one side of my body??? I am trying to rest, but I'm not used to being idle, so I have to smack myself everytime I want to jump in and take over the house again. The crumbs on the floor annoy me and little things that I can't do frustrate me. I think that is the hardest part for me. Anyone having surgery at Robina Hospital on the Gold Coast?? They are absolutely fantastic. You will be in the very best of hands. Lots of hugs to you all....Nola Wunderle

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