I'm not in Melbourne, so can't help from that perspective.
I did, however, have that surgery laparoscopically earlier this year. My surgery was in the morning and I was home by lunchtime the following day. The worst pain that I had was my back, from the bed. Otherwise it was panadol and anti inflammatories pretty much. I had 2 weeks off work, and have recovered well.
The biggest change I have noticed ( I was already post menopausal) is much drier skin than previously. That could be coincidental. Winter here is well known for drying skin out, too.
I hope you find someone you're comfortable with
