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Benmamy
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6 years ago

So frustrated and anxious!!!

Hi BC sisters, sorry but please let me vent it out.

I was originally diagnosed BC (between stage 2-3 right breast, had a mastectomy, chemo, and radio) 5 years ago, and 10 days ago I had an annual checkup.  The sonographer (very nice girl) found a suspicious thing on my one of lymph nodes near my right side collar bone.  She consulted the doctor at the imaging/pathology place and told me that I should be contacted by my oncologist to have biopsy.  I waited a couple of days but no contact so I was getting a bit optimistic about it; however, I contacted my oncologist just in case.  Turned out (I don't know what happened and who is responsible but), they somehow slipped away my case!!!!   

By the time I contacted the imaging/pathology company to book biopsy, they were all booked out so I have to travel further to have biopsy and wait another 10 days....   And my appointment with my oncologist now has to be delayed as well because the result from biopsy will not be on time.  Total of 3 weeks I have to wait till I know what is actually going on!!

I know that I live in a regional area (Tasmania) but still feel a bit neglected....
Now I am very anxious and angry. 😖 BC sisters, sorry for complaining but I am frustrated😫
  • Thank you, @strongtogether, @Nefertari, @iserbrown.
    It is so nice to know you guys are on my side.   I know you all have the same problems too but you used your time to cheer me up.   I really really appreciate it🎀
  • Thank you @Vangirl 
    it’s always nice to know somebody understands what you are going through!
    yes, waiting sucks☹️ 5:30 am looking at this site proves it, doesn’t it?!😅
    Have a nice day💖
  • Unfortunate timing for you!  Goodness, hopefully time will soon pass and the answers will be there! 
    Deep breaths, take care
  • Don't worry about venting, this forum is invaluable..no judgements we all understand how tough it  is;)

    So sorry that you have been "overlooked", I felt that way many times, like I slipped through the cracks and I understand the anger and the anxiety.  I will have everything crossed for a positive outcome for you  <3
  • Hi Benmamy
    I'm sorry that you had to go through that. It really is a tough thing to wait around for. Hopefully it will be good news.
  • That's awful for you @Benmamy the waiting for test results is just the pits! Hoping the outcome is a good one xx