Yeah I was relieved to find out I had a pretty good shaped head, like you said there is NO way to tell, before hand.
I tend to wear stud earrings more than anything and find dangly ones are often annoying, I do have a couple fo pair though and mught try them.
All I need to do now is loose a little weight, so that the face and shin is a littel thinner (put on weight in the last few years and more since my surgery in February which left me bed ridden for about 4-6 weeks (complications caused by my pre existing conditions).
I fins I do tend to wear a little make up now (THANK YOU Look Good Fell Better workshops) when going out, to draw attention to that and not my bald head and to make myself feel a little more feminine.
Thanks for the kind words, it helps, to know that you don't look bad (not that we have any choice in the matter <LOL>) and like I said I don't mind the look myself, I haven't had any issues with being almost bald yet, and I have no problems going out in public like this without a hat, and I feel that if people stare at me (and a coupld have) that theya re the ones with the problem NOT ME. Sometimes my head gets really hot (you can see in the photos, I am sweating a bit).