Ladies,
Its like I'm reading something I have already written but actually haven't . My sons are like that too. One has moved out at 22, with his sister to keep an eye on him as he is autistic . From ages 13 - 20 , was the worst years of my life even worse the breast cancer twice and all the operations and chemo afterwards. He tried to kill himself twice - when you must drive like a racing driver to emergency , you can somehow. Made it in 15 minutes instead of the usual legal 30 minutes. I was so beside myself with stress, worry and anger for my son but now at 23 he is good. He completed high school at 20 and got his certificate. He's working in IT and finished a diploma . The youngest is 20 and just been diagnosed with Chrohns and has chemo drugs every 8 weeks to keep it under control plus tablets. If he's not at work or Uni then he's in bed, hardly see him and he's lazy too. Not good with the kids , I think I spoiled them too much. I grew up poor in a family of 9 but happy. Wishing you all good luck with your sons. ???? Bep xx
