Oh @AllyJay, what a dreadful story! I'm so glad you had a sympathetic bank teller.
I take my family care responsibility seriously and pride myself on cooking good, nutritious food for them everyday. It is absurdly complicated though. My sister's kids are vegetarian and my father-in-law has Type 2 diabetes. Some nights I'm preparing three different meals. Clearly it will be some time before normal service is resumed... As you say, they'll live.
I think I'll try your cotton nightie idea. Thank you for that.
I'm trying to switch the vacuum nozzle of my brain to high so I can suck it up. I'm glad to hear that you think it will pass :*