True @Sister, that instance really takes the cake (pun intended #sorrynotsorry!). It is the gold standard of forgetting! I'm not feeling specifically worried about the operation, yet, but it is in the anxiety mix I know.
I feel a bit dismissed by my oncologist. And I'm starting to feel a bit annoyed, especially when I read examples here of how supportive and reactive oncologists can be. I know my issues are not serious compared to so many here. I really need to clarify what are the parameters of our clinical relationship.