Might do your daughter the world of good with a fresh start at a new school. The son might be able to get some part time work at the new place and some money of his own for a change. Hubby should be ecstatic at no more driving to and fro. Just pointing out the good things in case you have lost sight of that while your medical life is in a turmoil. A tip from someone who knows about moving and breast cancer, pack things you want in smaller boxes as you will have trouble lifting them around to unpack after surgery. Another tip, put all the things you don't immediately want together and all the things you will want in another lot of boxes. By all means, throw a lot of stuff away but don't be too heavy handed.