Hi lovely ladies, Sorry but needing to vent . Feeling very down and totally over being treated for breast cancer today. Am 4,5 months into 6 months of chemo with radio to follow and am so tired all the time!!! Am a single parent with a busy 9 year old and am still work part time but not doing nearly as much as I used to. I generally sleep quite well but still wake up feeling so lethargic and sleepy - so my question is . Does this improve once treatment ends ? I'm so frustrated and feeling like life will never get any better. Sorry to whinge, Im just so worried all the time Hope you all had lovely Christmases Sophie xx

Hi Sophie. I am at the beginning of this journey so I can't imagine how you must feel but I guess I will find out! I was diagnosed with BC on 14 November, had a mastectomy on 18 December. I have clear margins on my chest wall (grade 2 tumour) but the results say I have it in my sentinal node so apparently that means more surgery and then chemo! I have a copy of the report and I thinkit says I am positive for hormone receptors. I thought I would try this blog to see if anyone has had a similiar experience? It is a bit frustrating that it is holiday time because I have to wait until the drs come back from their holidays. Yes it is the worrying that is so hard. Can't really talk to friends and family because then they start worrying too. But I reckon it is ok to vent! Hope you are feeling better soon. Tanya

Hi Tanya , Sorry to hear you have such a wait . The waiting is the hardest part . You will find plenty of women on here with similar circumstances to you ( too many of us with. This horrid disease) I've had a mastectomy and auxiliary clearance with 1 lymph node positive . My treatment is 6 months of chemo followed by radiotherapy and then Tamoxifen as my tumours were estrogen positive. Soon enough you will know your pathology report inside out and will have many questions which the lovely ladies on here will be able to answer for you as well as support you. The best piece of advice I have been given on here is to take one day at a time- when things get a bit overwhelming I really try to remember this. Take care and stay in touch, Sophie xx

Yes, life does get better pretty soon after treatment. I had 6 rounds of chemo (last one 19 September) and radiotherapy which ended 12 November. I started tamoxifen a week after radiotherapy ended. I am feeling better each day. I have found exercise helps to counteract most side effects of tamoxifen and am enjoying my daily 3 km walk and swim 500m most days (it is great in the Qld heat). I still get very tired at night but feel my energy levels are returning to normal. Oh, and my eyebrows and eyelashes are back and the hair is growing! I found the last 6 weeks of chemo were tough mentally and physically. My body was worn out and it felt like each day was a marathon or some sort of horrible endurance test! But you do get there and once you start to feel better it improves quickly. Just know that each day is another day closer to feeling better, and boy does it feel great to not have all those horrible chemo side effects anymore. I actually felt better each day of radiotherapy until the end when I got very tired and a bit sore. But life is great now. You will get there, just hang in there, one day at a time. Take care. Deanne xxxxoooo

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Hi Tanya , Sorry to hear you have such a wait . The waiting is the hardest part . You will find plenty of women on here with similar circumstances to you ( too many of us with. This horrid disease) I've had a mastectomy and auxiliary clearance with 1 lymph node positive . My treatment is 6 months of chemo followed by radiotherapy and then Tamoxifen as my tumours were estrogen positive. Soon enough you will know your pathology report inside out and will have many questions which the lovely ladies on here will be able to answer for you as well as support you. The best piece of advice I have been given on here is to take one day at a time- when things get a bit overwhelming I really try to remember this. Take care and stay in touch, Sophie xx
tannie53
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Hi Sophie. I am at the beginning of this journey so I can't imagine how you must feel but I guess I will find out! I was diagnosed with BC on 14 November, had a mastectomy on 18 December. I have clear margins on my chest wall (grade 2 tumour) but the results say I have it in my sentinal node so apparently that means more surgery and then chemo! I have a copy of the report and I thinkit says I am positive for hormone receptors. I thought I would try this blog to see if anyone has had a similiar experience? It is a bit frustrating that it is holiday time because I have to wait until the drs come back from their holidays. Yes it is the worrying that is so hard. Can't really talk to friends and family because then they start worrying too. But I reckon it is ok to vent!

Hope you are feeling better soon.

Tanya

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