Rest Recover and regroup. We all need that break at times. And I guess many have remembered comments said to others thinking it would help but it didn't.
My only comment now to anyone with breast cancer is..."No you don't have to feel positive all the time...we all get scared, worry and have doubts if we will survive. ..all you need to do is show up for treatment. Positive or negative thoughts won't alter the outcone....but feeling positive can help us feel happier, it can take time to believe you are a survivor. "
I think it's wonderful you have shared your thoughts with your pastor who now has greater wisdom because if it. Kath x