@ValerieLouise you’re not alone 💕. I chose not to do chemo. Max possible difference to my 10 year outcome was less than 2%. Looking at the significant impact it would have on other important organs, didn’t seem worth the minimal potential benefit. Luckily my nodes were clear, otherwise my decision probably would have been different.
I was in 2 minds about radiation, eventually I went ahead with it. However, I ended up with lung damage. No one told me this was a possibility! Had I known, might have chosen differently.
I also said no to Tamoxifen. I know lots of ladies have chosen to take it, I respect their decision. However, for me, I recognise it doesn’t prevent cancer, may stop cancer from growing, can cause cancer, can cause problems with a whole host of body parts. I choose quality of life over this treatment path.
On the positive side, now I’m in the system, there is now close monitoring to detect any other cancer early. I found my own cancer. According to the recommended early detection program, I’m still 8 years away from my first mammogram! Would have been a big mess then. So, it’s OK to deviate.
Best wishes to you, and everyone with their treatment plan.
xx
