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melclarity
8 years agoMember
@LMK74 I also know when I had my single mastectomy and diep flap reconstruction all in one in February, I had some pain but it wasn't as bad as I thought it would be, for me the tummy tuck was way worse than a mastectomy as the incision went nearly 3/4 of my body. Hard to believe when I look at it now, havent been better! So slowly does it, you really will be better than you think!
I know we've spoken before about it too of the loss of your Mum, I also lost mine 8yrs ago now, and it still feels like yesterday, time doesn't heal, I think we just learn to travel the road without them. I've been through 2 diagnosis without her, and the 2nd by far the worst in terms of craving and missing her desperately. I have no sisters and didnt have much support at all either time. One of the hardest parts of this whole thing I have found is not having her beside me for comfort. But one thing I do know for certain, she is with me every single minute...look for the signs.
@iserbrown Christine, biggest of hugs to you too, I didnt know that you had lost your Mum, my heart goes out to you too, one of the biggest losses in life...well I believe. Lovely we could all share. Hugs Melinda xo
I know we've spoken before about it too of the loss of your Mum, I also lost mine 8yrs ago now, and it still feels like yesterday, time doesn't heal, I think we just learn to travel the road without them. I've been through 2 diagnosis without her, and the 2nd by far the worst in terms of craving and missing her desperately. I have no sisters and didnt have much support at all either time. One of the hardest parts of this whole thing I have found is not having her beside me for comfort. But one thing I do know for certain, she is with me every single minute...look for the signs.
@iserbrown Christine, biggest of hugs to you too, I didnt know that you had lost your Mum, my heart goes out to you too, one of the biggest losses in life...well I believe. Lovely we could all share. Hugs Melinda xo