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TraceyK
Member
13 years ago

Let my journey begin

The diagnosis I never ever wanted to hear, you have breast cancer with mets on the spine and in one shoulder.  No tears, no "why me's", no reaction at all really.  My first and only thoughts were for my young adult children.  How would they cope without me?  Well, my answer was - they are not going to cope without me.  I am going to fight this disease.  I'm feeling really positive and have so much support from our local cancer council, specialist nurse, pallative community care, the hospital, friends & family and the list just goes on.

I'm not sure what is in store for me as I see the Oncologist on 18 May but whatever it is, I am ready to fight.  Fight for my life and fight for my children's right to have me around for awhile yet (I'm not finished terrorising them yet hahaha).

 

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    Michelle_K
    Member
    13 years ago

     Hi Tracey,

    Its lovely to meet you. :)

    Yes I agree, the diagnosis of breast cancer is something none of us want to be told . I always thought it would never happen to me ...this type of thing happened to other people, but it did and I am living proof it can be overcome . It sounds like you have a wonderful attitude and support group around you... this in itself is a fantastic  thing to have when faced with this horrendous disease. The strength of the human spirit is an amazing thing and it it truly shown at times like this. All the very best Tracey and please keep in touch ,

    Luv,

    Michelle xx

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    Di_BCNA
    Member
    13 years ago

    Hi Tracey, lovely to meet you and welcome to the site!  Great to hear that you're feeling really positive and have a lot of support. Drop in here and post or comment as much as you like, and just ask if you need a hand with anything.

    Welcome again! :)

    Di

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    Di_BCNA
    Member
    13 years ago

    Hi Tracey, lovely to meet you and welcome to the site!  Great to hear that you're feeling really positive and have a lot of support. Drop in here and post or comment as much as you like, and just ask if you need a hand with anything.

    Welcome again! :)

    Di

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    TraceyK
    Member
    13 years ago

    Thank you so much Di.  It certainly is fantastic to know that we don't have to take this journey on our own. 

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    Michelle_R
    Member
    13 years ago

    We all remember that shock when we were told, and the sense of disbelief. Then we dig in and start to fight! 

     You have so much spirit and determination, and the doctors all say that the right attitude can have an amazing effect so stay positive.  I found that dealing with one day at a time helped through the tests and the surgery.  It was far less difficult than I imagined it would be.

    The women on this site are a wonderful support.

    Thinking of you, message me anytime,

    Michelle xx

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    TraceyK
    Member
    13 years ago

    What an inspiration you are Sonia :)  Thank you for sharing your story with me.  I'm not sure what stage I have or where my journey will take me but it's hearing your stories of courage and determination that will give me all the strength I need. 

    My disease would of been detected earlier had I put myself first but i didn't.  My son has severe complex congenital heart disease and he has been my main priority in the last couple of years as his heart is failing after 17 really good years.  I knew something wasn't quite right with my breast but I chose to ignore it or go into denial or both. 

    Telling my kids was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do but they were brilliant and very supportive.  They have made me so proud of them.  My son has been my carer for the last few weeks after being released from hospital and my daughter a tower of wisdom & strength. 

    I am scared of what the future holds but I am not going to let it rule my life.  It's time to take care of ME now.  I'm off to Bali on Wednesday for 5 nights of pampering with my daughter.  I wasn't sure I would be able to make it but I have and with the blessing of my doctor.

    Thank you all for your support and stories and making me feel very welcomed.  I know I am not alone and that is what will get me through.

    Thank you - Tracey xxx

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    SoniaWhite48
    Member
    13 years ago

    Thankyou for your kind comments Tracey.

    Have a lovely time in Bali with your daughter, and let her spoil you rotten. You deserve it.

    Cheers Sonia