Hi Naomi ??
So much harder when you are a youngie in your 30's,
My heart goes out to you ??
The best advice I got from my sister in law who had been through similar 40 years ago, was to let the surgeons, doctors & specialists worry for you. It sounds flip but was actually very comforting for me when I realised the level of skill, care & concern from a huge team around me. My survival is their first aim.
Also, I didn't realise until much later down the track that my gp is fantastic as well. Wish I'd got to him earlier. He filled in a few blank spots & answered questions that I kept forgetting at the hospital .
Also, your local cancer centre, mine is bloomhill in budrim, is absolutely fantastic. Again, I was late off the blocks & would have been so helpful at the beginning.
Good good luck. It is all do able, one little step at a time ??
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tansy