Hi Narelle. I'm sorry to hear you haven't been receiving more thoughtful support. We have a few booklets and fact sheets that might be helpful. You can order them here or download them at the links below.
Helping a friend or colleague with breast cancer
I wish I could fix it: Supporting a partner through breast cancer
Anxiety, depression and breast cancer
GP Mental Health Care Plan
And if you haven't already done so, I also encourage you to find a local support group. Meeting other women who understand can go a long way.