Thank you all so much. Yes, I have had the genetic test and it was negative. I was just starting menopause when I was diagnosed so the chemo finished that of for me ( always a silver lining). I have been on letrozole since I finished my radiation also.
GP, Oncologist and Surgeon all have different views that was why I really didn't know what to do. Thank you again, I really appreciate you all taking the time to respond because that's right it is still a serious surgery not to be taken lightly.