Hi Karel,
Just jumped over from the secondary breast cancer site and read your post, what can i say that several of the others ladies havent said, i too have secondaries, but at this point in time the only thing that matters is YOU and the descions that you and your husband will be talking about in the near future,along with treatment options with your oncologist, there is so much information to take on board and you will probably feel overwhelmed at times, I am three years post diagnosis and I know there are several ladies who are 7 8 and 9 years or so post diagnosis of secondaries as well,please "pop" over to the secondary breast cancer site and perhaps reading some of our posts may help you in some small way, please take care, you have a wonderful,loving supportive family,please know that we are thinking of you and you are not alone,
wendy 55