My sister lived for 15 years with secondary breast cancer and I recall her conversation with her Dr..."What's the point of doing more?" He told her if she tolerated it okay and could slow it down she could get more time with hood quality of life. When she started her journey her kids were adults but only 1 married. In that time she saw them marry, met her grandchildren and shared wonderful memories. She even worked as a helper at the kindy to get more quality times. She knew when it was time to walk away. I admire her courage and hope if mine returns I too can follow her path. Take care. Kath x