Hi Pammy
I don't blame you for being upset! Maybe it will just be a discussion with the oncologist nothing more and as others say a chance to ask lots of questions and gather heaps of info about your situation.
No one wants the initial plans to change but sometimes they need to. My initial plan was lumpectomy and rads but due to final pathology I have had lumpectomy and currently doing chemo with rads to follow. The thought of having chemo was horrific but I want the best chance of kicking cancer'survivor butt so I went with what was recommended.
Good luck with your appointment this arvo.
Hugs xx