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lorrainejt's avatar
11 years ago

Head fry

After finding out just over a week ago I have breast cancer my week has been crazy with test and appointment as you all would know being only 23 I am finding it most hard to take in all the information I start treatment in a week it is just moving all so fast. It's hard to get my head around the fact that I feel well fit and healthy but I'm actually sick and Doctors are going to make me sick to get me better when I feel well. Maybe that's just me?

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  • Thank you julia i have been looking around for a group with woman in early 20's im sure i will stumble across it in the nights i cant sleep i always jump on line and look to see what i can find
  • I am sitting in the waiting room right now to talk to a fertility doctor about what they can do for me never crossed my mind if i would ever have children but now its just another thing i have to think about! Thank you for all the kind words and support!
  • Hi Lorraine,

    Sorry that you have to go through this so young!  I believe there are young people's support groups around so maybe contact the cancer council who can advise about this.  Also I think there is a young persons group on this site but sorry I don't know how to access it, but someone will.

     

    All the best

    Julia

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    Thank you for your kind words Robyn.  It's hard for me to find that happy medium where I'm listening to what my body is telling me to do and when I should push myself to keep active.  Going through my first treatment I've realised that my body has a rough trot for the first few days and then perks up again so I know that's my cue to get back into the swing of things.  My head was in a very bad place a few days ago and the nausea feeling just wouldn't go away.  I went to the hospital and they gave me another anti-nausea drug that fixed me straight away.  It's good to know that I can open up like this and be able to provide and receive support during this time.  I'm assuming that each round of chemo will be different though??  I just don't want to go through each round knowing that those bad thoughts are going to come back about me not getting better and that each minute that passes feels like an hour.  I know that there are different complimentary programs that I can do so hopefully one of them will help me during my rough days.  Thanks for being there to read what I've got to say.  Take care xxx

  • Thank you yes has been hard hearing the words 'breast cancer' i seem to be taking ok now just along way to go thank if i ever need to chat i will send a msg :-) thank you xx
  • Welcome girls! Lorraine, I too struggled with feeling fine and being told I had breast cancer at 27. If you need to have a vent about it all please feel free to send me a message. It's all a bit hard at the start, as it literally feels like you are on a roundabout and can't get off. The best piece of advice I can give you is.....try and stay positive! Xxxx
  • Hey teresa i would love to hear how you go ! I am having treatment before i have the mastectomy ! I am just a stress head atm im sure i will be fine i have amazing family and friends behind me for support.i wish you and your family all the best while your having treament !
  • Welcome Lorraine,and Teresa, to the online network:)This place is so amazing for support and advice while you go through your treatment.No question is silly,and there is always someone here for you.I am 59, and I was diagnosed last September 2nd.Like you Lorraine,I could never quite grasp the fact that I felt so well,but I was so unwell!! I had a mastectomy,then chemo followed.I actually didn't find it too bad,and apart from a few days each round,when I was definitely fatigued,the rest of the time I was pretty good.If there is one thing I could tell you to do during chemo,it would be to make sure you get out and walk EVERY day.It really does help with the fatigue.All the best with your treatment,and stay on touch on here for support and advice.CheersxoxRobyn
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    Anonymous

    Hi. I'm Teresa and I just joined tonight. It's amazing the amount of people diagnosed with this everyday. I'm up to having to chemo but what you wrote had an instant effect on me. I'm 31 with a child under 2 and a hubby. We found out that I had breast cancer in mid May and since then had the mastectomy, lymph nodes removed and now up to chemo. I wanted to go through it quickly, like a band aid. I knew all my decisions were going to be the right ones so why wait. I'm up to stage of how to keep focused during treatment. I'm going to try everything, yoga, counseling,  relaxation, distractions, and the list goes on. I'll let you know how I go. I'm so sorry that you have to go through this. Hope to chat again soon. Take care xxx

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    Anonymous

    Hi. I'm Teresa and I just joined tonight. It's amazing the amount of people diagnosed with this everyday. I'm up to having to chemo but what you wrote had an instant effect on me. I'm 31 with a child under 2 and a hubby. We found out that I had breast cancer in mid May and since then had the mastectomy, lymph nodes removed and now up to chemo. I wanted to go through it quickly, like a band aid. I knew all my decisions were going to be the right ones so why wait. I'm up to stage of how to keep focused during treatment. I'm going to try everything, yoga, counseling,  relaxation, distractions, and the list goes on. I'll let you know how I go. I'm so sorry that you have to go through this. Hope to chat again soon. Take care xxx