@Kat09, I didn't realize it was standard treatment to the neck,but I guess if all the other ladies can do it so can I. I'm a constant worrier( thanks anxiety) but I love we can swap experiences and support each other.
@Zoffiel, love how you word things it's another Zoffiel lol moment. My neighbor is wonderful and has driven me to nearly every chemo appointment. He did this for my mum too when she had cancer. I don't drive so his help has been amazing. I've known him over 20 years and I feel I owe him so much. Just hope I can repay his kindness someday. He has a bit of foot in mount disease at times lol.