Thanks so much everyone for your comments. They have all been so helpful from everyone. The kids have taken it well, but my little girl had a little cry last night and is feeling a little overwhelmed with also starting school on Monday and I go in for my Mystectomy on Tuesday.
The good news is that my body scans came back clear. Which is fantastic news. I was a little shocked to hear the tumor was 6cm so it was quite big and in my lymph nodes, and is also HER2 positive. Just trying to get to Tuesday now and then deal with the chemo the week after. I had to have a break from the site over the past couple of days as I felt I was just information overloaded, and I didn't even want to think about it for a day atleast. But I thankyou all for your help, advice and comments. I'm in the sutherland shire in NSW so I'm looking for a group around there, there is a couple in my information booklet the hospital gave me so when I'm feeling up to it I might contact them. I hope you're all doing well with your treatment etc. Thanks for everything.