Hi Karen, Thanks so much for your message. I had thought about facebook, atleast people wouldn't be contacting me direct and I wouldn't have to look at it if I didn't want. I tried turning my phone off, but then was expecting a call from the doctor!! Hopefully, everyone will calm down a little now. It's very hard. Everyone wants to help, but no one knows what to do and my husband wants to do everything, but has no time. As you said take each day as it comes. Just need to get through test results today and then surgery Tuesday. I hope you're doing okay now. xxx