Drs have conflicting views..

Thanku arpie for your encouraging reply. Everyone on here is so helpful. The problem actually is my oncologist.  The rest of my team are great. Its the oncologist who is dismissive, hes the only one who thinks no treatment is necessary, and unfortunately he's at the helm of it all... so definitely looking at replacing him. Tamoxifen is a blanket drug... used for post or pre menopause... but as I've since found out this morning if oncologist had bothered to run blood tests and find out my menopause status, he might have been able to prescribe more suited drug specific to hormone levels. (I'm 52, but had hysterectomy at 29 and dont know whether I went thru menopause back then or not, was so busy working, studying, raising 3 kids and running a farm I was lucky if I knew what day it was 🤣.. ).. I feel like I'm back on the right path today tho and have gained so much strength from everyone's words of advice, cause now I'll be making sure they listen to me, my needs and what I want for my body... take care, and thanku again for taking the time to reply.