Peta it's a hard long road I've been lucky with my family but they still don't get what we go through I've actually in my mind eliminated some people I thought were friends I forgive them but I won't forget the silence from some of them some people just don't get it in fact even though I was working with people with major disabilities diseases I don't think I got the full picture do however get it now. I had left mastectomy 6 weeks to go of a total of 6 months chemo then 5 weeks radio I found a lot don't cope when they actually see me it's a hard road much love just do one day at a time try and find some peace