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TonyaM
3 years agoMember
Hi @rosie2410, sorry you’ve had to join us but welcome.All these bc decisions are awful aren’t they and there’s no right or wrong. Do your research and then go with what feels right for you for now. Your decision might depend on various factors ie.your age and health,lifestyle.In my 40’s I was horrified to lose a breast and so opted for lumpectomy and radiation.Despite clear margins and the cancer not being aggressive, the darn thing came back 7 yrs later.The breast was like a hard rock after radiation so I was ok about losing it in my 50’s. Fast track 12yrs and I’ve just had my other breast off because I was sick of being lopsided with a 16D boob! In my 60’s,I no longer care about breasts but value my life. I’m now flat and I’m ok with it and so is my husband. I won’t say I like it.The drawback is seeing my stomach so I wear a crop top type bra with a little padding. Know that you’ll be numb(ish)across your chest after a mastectomy. Hopefully,I won’t have to face anymore bc crap going into my 70’s. Best wishes with your decisions and keep coming back here for support. xx