Sandra, everyone is very different in the ways in which they cope and handle situations, there is no right or wrong. Of course it makes sense, both of my diagnosis I have questioned as I was fine both times and no lumps or symptoms. Then you have to remind yourself you have breast cancer...but its like do I? mentally thats the toughest thing to get around as it doesnt make sense. How can you be so well and have this going on inside you and not know? uuugh its hard! Communication is so key, with the Oncologist or Surgeon to understand everything exactly, to help with that strange detachment. I get it...xx Melinda
