Oh totally agree with the immunisation. And yep the hospital bear the burden but it is also incredibly crappy that you also have to share that burden :'( . I know when I was in hospital after my mastectomy I had to be moved as a patients wife came to visit him on the surgical ward knowing that she had whooping cough - I'm sure that the blessing I silently bestowed on her would be classed as less than cordial. And yes it does all seem too much sometimes but you are going through enough as is and don't need additional challenges, either physical or emotional thrown at you from outside parties. I think your brilliant for still finding a positive to focus on. More incoming hugs Xx