My big girl undies will be up to my chin I reckon @Primek.
The day before the op I'm seeing two close friends for coffee, having a massage and then later will go for a walk. I think all that will be good for me at that stage. There's no way round this week, I'm just going to have to tough it out.
I think you're right about the overthinking. I don't feel I am at this stage. I'm trying to be open to all the feelings, good and bad. I know that I can't avoid them, and that I need to go through them to come out the other side. I think my process may very well be similar to yours.
Love the photo! K xox