And fair enough too - the grumpiness I mean. I’m far enough away from it (at least the first time round!) to be pleased for every scintilla of research and new treatment that makes the whole shebang easier for anyone! Your husband sounds like an eminently practical man - there are times when you just have to get angry and upset and stuff being sensible. When you are in the throes of treatment, no academic papers or suppositions will do it, nothing other than a full retrospective fix, tomorrow if not today, is acceptable. Chocolate’s a practical option. This week will pass - promise!