Anyone out there had a recurrence after taking Tamoxifen?

I agree, it really helps talking with others who have traveled this road. Strangest thing is though, I had Stage 3 aggressive which shocked my Surgeon in between my checkups, pretty scary. I don't have any options for reconstruction, I think because I had a recurrence, so its Mastectomy and Diep Flap recon all in one Op. I'm dreading it and I think its because having been down this road twice am just so tired of it all especially as am getting my life back together again and moving forward now finally to be set back. Plus I dont have any support really. Step at a time will wait and see what my Surgeon says this week, then deep breath, will be sent to the Plastic Surgeon then a date Id imagine. Uuugh!