Just keep busy, lots of us washed walls cleaned cupboards, cooked, just to keep the mind occupied,crazy women. It's fear of the unknown, I'm sure once the day comes you will be ok, but if your not don't be afraid to say I'm scared, cause I bet you everyone else who loves you is to.we have all been there and know how you feel, it's just normal, I remember I had a wave of calm the day of my surgery and thought come on guys lets get this show on the road, I was quite elevated and the family thought I had lost my mind ,especially hubby when I was singing to the radio in pre op. regards adean
