12 months on

Hi Amanda. I am new here - I'm 42 with two boys in primary school. I just wanted to send you (belated) congratulations on your 1st anniversary, my deepest sympathy about your friend, and a big cyber-hug. I hope you splash the hell out of those puddles during your 40th year.

Hi  Amanda, Just sitting at my computer thinking about you and all the others. What about if we all send an e-mail to one of the current affair programs and they do a story about you and others . It will make more awarnes , and may get a lot of support from it..  Big Hugs Debbie xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Hi Amanda

I was so sorry to read about your friend.  She (like us) was too young to go, and it seem so unfair to her family. 

But let's all keep fighting this together - she would have wanted you to try and stay focused on being here for as long as you can.

Take care

Amy x

Hi Amanda, I am very sorry to hear about your friend and can imagine how devastated this has made you feel. It is a totally heart wrenching situation, and it really hits home when we can relate to someone who is in a similar situation to us (ie: similar age, children's ages, secondaries etc). Having said that, while you will be grieving the loss of your friend, I can only imagine how frightened you must feel too...please gently remind yourself that we are all different and our cancers are different too.... Take care and stay strong, Celeste?

 Hi Amanda, lovely photo of you and your post.

You explain things so well and from the heart. There are others on here also who do that.

I hope you get to publish something soon and also reach 40.

Yesterday, I too went for a lovely swim, in the ocean at Bridport. The water was a  green/ blue colour and clear. It was very enjoyable to tread water for half an hour,  or more on the high tide, whilst chatting to a friend.  The hills in the distance to the south, the rocks by the shore, the other people enjoying the warm weather, the gum trees, dry summer bush smells and native grasses growing close to the waters edge,  were a pleasure to savour in the late afternoon.

Sincerely, Kathy. OX

Hi Amanda,

That is very sad about your friend.  I lost a friend back in January.  She had been clear for 10 years then developed lung problems and secondaries back in August last year.  She was admitted to hospital in January wth more lung problems and had 3 heart attacks and passed away at 43.  Even though I didn't know her that well, we compared stories felt a connection and had kept in touch.  I met her while studying for a certificate so that we could hang onto our jobs this year.  Since she passed away I have re-evaluated and realised that I am not happy in my job.  I love working with the kids but I can't be bothered with the politics of it anymore.

It is hard when someone passes away and I like you cried a river of tears for this lady.  It is so cruel this disease or any disease for that matter.

Keep on fighting as hard as you can and I will keep on fighting too.  Sometimes it is not easy and we question ourselves, (I am tending to do that at the moment), but we find our way back and get on with it.

Thinking of you Amanda and hoping all settles for you soon.

Take care.

Tracey xx

Hi Amanda,

That is very sad about your friend.  I lost a friend back in January.  She had been clear for 10 years then developed lung problems and secondaries back in August last year.  She was admitted to hospital in January wth more lung problems and had 3 heart attacks and passed away at 43.  Even though I didn't know her that well, we compared stories felt a connection and had kept in touch.  I met her while studying for a certificate so that we could hang onto our jobs this year.  Since she passed away I have re-evaluated and realised that I am not happy in my job.  I love working with the kids but I can't be bothered with the politics of it anymore.

It is hard when someone passes away and I like you cried a river of tears for this lady.  It is so cruel this disease or any disease for that matter.

Keep on fighting as hard as you can and I will keep on fighting too.  Sometimes it is not easy and we question ourselves, (I am tending to do that at the moment), but we find our way back and get on with it.

Thinking of you Amanda and hoping all settles for you soon.

Take care.

Tracey xx

Yes, let's all continue to enjoy being alive! We are so lucky to have this site where we can share stories and lend a 'helping hand' when needed on this sometimes scary ride! Hope all is going well with you, take care Celeste?

Hi Amanda,

That's the first one down.  Here's to many more.  It can be done there are a lot of ladies on here who have had advanced even longer than me. 

Keeping you rlife as normal as possible is one of the most important things to do.  It is something I insist on.  My girls thought I was such a hardass( hope Ididn;t offend anyone) while I was in hospital as I made them still go to their casual jobs as I feel it is important that they know the world still keeps turning.

I know you get down and I love that you can find sanctuary in your photography.  You inspired me to go up to the local duck pond tonight and I sat on the pier taking photos of the storm coming across.  It is very calming to do that.

As you say, every year we can hang on brings us closer to a cure or even new medications.  Fingers crossed for everyone.

Take care Amanda and don't forget we are only a post away.  Fingers crossed for you and your family.

Take care.

Tracey xx

Hi Amanda

First anniversary - may there be many, many more.

Let's all keep hoping and dancing and know that we are all here for each other.

Amy x