Hi, so sorry to hear of your diagnosis. Those early days are so overwhelming, and I totally understand the anxiety around stressing your family, I felt the same.
From my experience though, once they also get over the initial shock, having their love and support will help you get through the mext months.
Once you have your surgery and have a treatment plan in place, ypu will begin to feel a little more in control.
At the beginning, I was terrified but with the love of my family and a fantastic medical team, I am now 5 years out from diagnosis and doing well.
Take one day at a time, feel the love and support of your family and come to this forum when you feel alone. The other ladies on here are amazing and will give you as much support as they can.
Best wishes
Michele xx