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KylieG
6 years agoMember
What a time to find out you're not covered by HBF! And can I save my nipple?
I was diagnosed just over a week ago. Amid all the shock, at least in the back of my mind I thought, at least I'm covered with HBF. It was only when I was sitting in the office at the private hospital that the receptionist told me my HBF card wasn't working and I called them and they told me they cancelled my policy in May when a payment didn't go through. They said I could just back-pay the last few months and be reinstated but then they put me on hold for 25 minutes and when they came back on the line they said I had to sign up for a new policy and pre-existing conditions would not be covered! And this was the day after my diagnosis, so my brand new condition was now "pre existing"! I was devastated. I've been with them for nine years. Don't know whether to try to fight or not.
So now I'm not sure what my options are, the public hospital hasn't contacted me for my first appointment yet. In the mean time I've had my bone and CT scans done, I have a 5 cm tumour and at least two lymph nodes, so stage 2 bordering on stage 3 basically.
The private surgeon I saw said I need all the breast tissue and nipple removed but there is no cancer on the nipple or skin, so I wanted to ask if anyone else has had a similar experience and fought to save their skin and nipple? I asked for a reconstruction and he said if I want that they have to put an expander in and do a second surgery later. Has anyone managed to get it all done at once? Also my breasts are large (10G) so he said there are no implants as big as my breasts. I wouldn't mind going smaller on the other side too, is that an option? The surgeon made it sound like that's something I'll have to do on my own at a later date.
Thanks guys if anyone reads this, I'm in Perth so I don't know if that affects anything.
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- Blossom1961MemberOne step at a time and you will get there. Don’t try to guess what will happen, just hope. My mass was obvious from before chemo so it was a no brainer that I would need the whole lot removed regardless of how well I responded to the chemo. As it turns out, the biopsy of my removed boob showed no living cancer but the two nodes were still active with cancer.
- KylieGMemberOh, that might happen to me too I guess!
- Blossom1961Member@KylieG Mine had shrunk enough for me to have just a lumpectomy but because of the huge mass which couldn’t be confirmed dead, it was best to remove the lot.
- KylieGMember@Blossom1961 yes that's right hormone negative and her2 positive and two nodes as well. I'm hoping if it shrinks I don't have to have the full mastectomy but I guess that's to be seen! Quite a road ahead that you've already been on! Thanks Arpie for the hugs!
- arpieMemberAll the best with the chemo, @KylieG - as @Blossom1961 says - it is doable. I can only imagine how you are feeling right now. xx Big Hugs coming your way xx
- Blossom1961Member@KylieG Are You hormone -ve and Her2+? That was my scenario. Three spots ranging from 1 - 4.2 cm plus a large spreading mass of haze that had cancer in it plus two node involvement. Chemo first for me then mastectomy and anxillery (node) clearance. It was doable but a shock at the time. Big hugs.
- KylieGMemberWell I had the MRI and my appointment today and it's all changed- they say the cancer is bigger than they thought- it's 6.4 centimetres and previously they thought 5 cms. So now they want to do chemotherapy for 4-6 months starting next week! Can't say I feel ready for chemo but I guess nobody ever does. I also found out today from the nurse (everyone forgot to mention this to me!) that the cancer is not responsive to oestrogen or progesterone but it is her2 receptive. That was a surprise. Anyway it's been a sad day for me, I'm feeling low about the prospect of chemo.
- KylieGMemberYes Primek I felt so much more at home after this visit to the public hospital! I grew up using public and there's something comforting about it to me. You have to wait, but if it's urgent, they'll look after you.
- primekMemberWonderful news on both counts. I was able to use my private cover in the public system, which got me a free TV. Lol. But I've had all my treatment even chemo using public services but still use private cover. No gap fees. I think the public does better with the support services than private seems to.
- kmakmMemberBloody brilliant!