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Well meaning..but not helpful (for me)
I've recently been diagnosed. I let the initial shock subside and embraced that part of my brain & personality which is about process and planning rather than panic. So lots of information gathering, ...
Please know that you did not cause your cancer, none of us did. This shaming and blaming is not healthy, albeit well intentioned. If you go through this site you will find thst some of us were superfit and living very healthy lifestyles others like me, not so. By your post it sounds like you have been living a healthy lifestyle. I wish you the love and support of compassionate friends. Sometimes one is just all we need. Xo