Thanks Emim, that's made me feel better already, especially hearing your aunt is still here 25 years later, that's great news, yes you are so right we all live in the same environment and breathe the same air. I just think some of us are lucky and some not so lucky, that's life! Good luck with your oncologist appointment, think I'm having 6 months of chemo to. A long roller coaster ride, but sure we will both come out the other side ok and appreciate life so much more. For a pessimist, think I am being really optimistic, for me, to the challenge ahead. It really does help knowing you are not alone going through this as well.