This is my first time posting ...

Best of luck @Mazbeth. It’s hard to imagine now but there will come a time when you will have to work hard to remember all of this stuff!  Use whatever support systems that are useful to get you through. One of the reasons I don’t like the  ‘journey’ analogy is that I have always found real journeys at least as interesting as the destination. With cancer, keeping your eye on the destination (no evidence of disease) is the real focus. Yes, the troublesome lodger still has the key but time helps to manage the thought of another unwelcome residency much better.