I wish you all the best with your treatment - and can only say as a relatively new member here that this is a great place to connect - having had relatives and friends with BC I thought I knew the answers - however nothing prepares you for the emotional and psychological impacts of this diagnosis - this site will give you the connection with other pink ladies who have been on or are going through the same journey as you. I have found that a huge comfort.
The biggest thing I have learnt with this disease is one size does not fit all and your wishes and needs are an important consideration in terms of your treatment and well being.
So keep asking questions until you get the answers - even if that means another opinion ...
Keep coming here to share or vent or ask it is a great place and many wonderful women to answer.
Love and hugs
Chris xx