Thanks for the reply and welcome, I've been tardy in replying as it's been a busy and tough few weeks. Not only dealing with this BC diagnosis and further surgery, but it was also my late husband's anniversary, he died unexpectedly 3 years ago. I can honestly say that his death is the most devastating thing that ever happened. This diagnosis is the pits for sure, but honestly, losing my husband of 30 years was worse. I have two wonderful sons and whilst they do live interstate, they are very supportive. I have a positive outlook, I'm resilient and just getting on with the treatment and planning. I start radiotherapy in a few weeks, and will take things as they come. I will try and find a support group in my area, I think making contact with like minded pink sisters will be very helpful in the long run. Thanks again for the warm welcome. Pegasus